Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Week 31
Well, we've officially made it to week 31!! Yaay! Everyday seems to be an accomplishment lately and we are going to celebrate each weekly milestone. It hasn't been easy since I got home last Thursday. I have to take terbutaline every 4 hours. Although it's always on my mind, I set phone alerts and alarms to make sure I don't miss or take a dose late.
There have been several instances when Eric and I have to decide if we need to go back to the hospital. They are very scary. I log every contraction I have and when I have close to 6 in an hour, I take another pill. If the contractions still don't stop, I'm supposed to go to the hospital. On Sunday afternoon and last night, I had episodes needing another pill. About an hour after I took the second pill, the contractions subside. I read online that women pregnant with multiples who have preterm labor typically start contracting around week 29 or 30 and the contractions seem to stop after week 31. I sure hope it's true! I wouldn't mind being on bedrest without these contraction scares!
Tomorrow I have a doctor appointment. I get to go out of the house! I'm a little excited although I know it's going to tire me out. Just getting up for my bathroom breaks tires me out now! They are going to do a biophysical profile (BPP) on both the babies to determine how they are developing. These tests will be done weekly now and will measure the weights and sizes of each baby. The babies' movements will also be monitored along with the amount of amniotic fluid each has. A score will be assessed for each baby. These scores are particularly important in my case so the doctors know how mature the babies are and when it's more safe for them to be delivered.
Thank you to everyone who has continued to pray for all of us. We are so grateful the Lord is continuing to watch over these precious little boys!
There have been several instances when Eric and I have to decide if we need to go back to the hospital. They are very scary. I log every contraction I have and when I have close to 6 in an hour, I take another pill. If the contractions still don't stop, I'm supposed to go to the hospital. On Sunday afternoon and last night, I had episodes needing another pill. About an hour after I took the second pill, the contractions subside. I read online that women pregnant with multiples who have preterm labor typically start contracting around week 29 or 30 and the contractions seem to stop after week 31. I sure hope it's true! I wouldn't mind being on bedrest without these contraction scares!
Tomorrow I have a doctor appointment. I get to go out of the house! I'm a little excited although I know it's going to tire me out. Just getting up for my bathroom breaks tires me out now! They are going to do a biophysical profile (BPP) on both the babies to determine how they are developing. These tests will be done weekly now and will measure the weights and sizes of each baby. The babies' movements will also be monitored along with the amount of amniotic fluid each has. A score will be assessed for each baby. These scores are particularly important in my case so the doctors know how mature the babies are and when it's more safe for them to be delivered.
Thank you to everyone who has continued to pray for all of us. We are so grateful the Lord is continuing to watch over these precious little boys!
Friday, April 24, 2009
Week 30 Doctor Appointment-What the heck??!!
Well, this week's doctor appointment didn't exactly go as planned!! On Tuesday, I had an early morning appointment. Eric had the day off, so he was able to go with me. We planned to drive separately to the appointment and then I would just leave and go straight to work. The appointment itself was normal. I told Dr. McKernan about some cramping I'd had over the weekend. It started on Saturday and although it was pretty uncomfortable, the cramps weren't consistent. I just thought they were Braxton Hicks contractions and just another sign I was getting closer to the end! On Sunday, Eric and I went to IKEA (in hindsight, I can't believe we went!) and I had a few of the same cramps, but they weren't as bad as on Saturday. Monday, I was absolutely fine! Anyway, I told Dr. McKernan about the cramps and he suggested I get the length of my cervix checked.
So, I had an ultrasound done. The tech didn't say much during the exam, but said she wanted to get the PA to do a second look. At the time, she made it seem like it was just that she was fairly inexperienced and wanted someone to double check her measurement. The PA came in and measured again and said, "Alright, well, get dressed and I'm going to get a room for you to see Dr. McKernan." The way the whole thing happened, Eric and I thought they were confused and thought we hadn't seen him already!
So, we did what they said and when we saw the doctor again, he explained that my cervix was a little shorter than what he liked to see in a 30 week pregnant woman (especially carrying twins) and that I was showing "funneling." He explained that was when the outside part of the cervix was beginning to open and made the shape of a funnel. These both indicated possible preterm labor so he sent me and Eric over to the hospital so they could monitor me for awhile and if needed, I would be admitted.
We went over to the hospital and they hooked me up to heart monitors on each of the babies and a contraction monitor. My cervix was checked again and it showed I was 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced. When we heard this, Eric and I both got really nervous and upset. On top of it all, I was having regular contractions. How could this be happening? I was supposed to be on my way to work!
The nurses started giving me shots of turbutaline to see if it would stop the contractions. After three shots, the contractions were very minimal, but were still occuring. An ultrasound tech also came in and did another ultrasound to measure the weights of the twins. Baby A weighed 4.2 lbs and Baby B weighed 3.7 lbs.
The neonatologist who was on staff that day came in to see us. He gave us a 20 minute briefing on what to expect with premature babies-how they are going to be underdeveloped and will have to stay in a NICU for a long time. He explained they might have long term development issues and depending on how I progressed, I would have to be transferred to another hospital since Arrowhead isn't equiped to handle such premature babies. If I had to deliver right away, I would have to stay at Arrowhead and the babies would be transferred to a Level 2 hospital where there was a NICU that could treat the babies. The doctor was incredibly nice, but what the heck??! Was that really necessary to come scare the living daylights out of me and Eric? Couldn't he at least wait to see if the treatment was going to work first?
After that, the perinatologist came to visit. This guy is such a hoot-I'll try to paint a picture of this guy: Dr. Pedron is tall and very skinny with glasses. He wore black and white pinstriped pants with a black and white checkered shirt. He had on gray Mickey Mouse socks and gray suede Gucci loafers. The funny this is, this guy just exudes smartness. You hardly have to look at him without realizing he is just insanely smart. Eric thought that he was able to pull of his ensemble. I just thought it made him more of character.
Anyway, Dr. Pedron came and in and sat on the bed next to me and asked, "So what's going on here?" He talks very quietly so you have to strain to hear him and when he talks to you, it's like you're in a pop quiz that you didn't study for. I told him I was admitted for preterm labor and he asked was the treatment had been so far. Between me and Eric, we gave him the full picture of what we knew was going on. He had read in my chart that Eric was a medical student, so he pimped him a little-it was pretty funny. He spent quite some time with us and at the end, he bluntly told us that everything was going to be fine. He said there was no reason why my body was going into preterm labor, but that since I had about 8lbs of baby in me, my uterus just thought it was done. Even if I were to deliver the babies that soon, he assured me they would be alright. He said he was going to take the prudent action of treating me with magnesium sulfate to shock my uterus and make it stop contracting. He told me not to worry. It was evident he is a Christian man and he said that all we can do is pray. He reminded me and Eric that we are told not to worry but rather to leave it God and let he and Dr. McKernan worry for us. That was exactly what we needed to hear!
After our meetings with the specialists, the nurse came in and started me on a magnesium sulfate bollis. Magnesium sulfate is used as an anti-seizure medicine, but can be used in high doses to treat preterm labor. The nurse had to stay in my room when she she started the IV medication to make sure I didn't have a bad reaction as the medicine slows down all of your smooth muscles. The medicine made me feel like I'd been hit by a truck. I was incredibly woosy and sweated profusely. The air had been turned down and I had a fan on me, but it hardly helped. It really made me feel like crap, but after they gave me the super high dose, I had no contractions!
I stayed on the magnesium until Wednesday when I saw Dr. McKernan again. He said I could start tapering off it and back onto the turbutaline. If I didn't have contractions on the turbutaline, I could go home on Thursday to be on bedrest. Fortunately, I didn't experience any major contractions after being taked off the magnesium. I now have to stay home on bed rest and take the medicine every 4 hours. Oh, and I have to drink alcohol! Dr. McKernan told me that alcohol is an excellent tocolytic (anti-contraction drug). I wasn't exactly expecting to go home and start drinking!
Now, I just have to get through the next 4-5 weeks. It would be awesome to make it to 35 weeks since that's when the babies finish developing neurologicially.
Eric and I are so grateful that the contractions seem to be managed and we can let these little guys continue to grow in utero. We pray that the Lord will continue to take care of these special boys while they are still growing and will allow my body to let them continue to mature inside of me.
So, I had an ultrasound done. The tech didn't say much during the exam, but said she wanted to get the PA to do a second look. At the time, she made it seem like it was just that she was fairly inexperienced and wanted someone to double check her measurement. The PA came in and measured again and said, "Alright, well, get dressed and I'm going to get a room for you to see Dr. McKernan." The way the whole thing happened, Eric and I thought they were confused and thought we hadn't seen him already!
So, we did what they said and when we saw the doctor again, he explained that my cervix was a little shorter than what he liked to see in a 30 week pregnant woman (especially carrying twins) and that I was showing "funneling." He explained that was when the outside part of the cervix was beginning to open and made the shape of a funnel. These both indicated possible preterm labor so he sent me and Eric over to the hospital so they could monitor me for awhile and if needed, I would be admitted.
We went over to the hospital and they hooked me up to heart monitors on each of the babies and a contraction monitor. My cervix was checked again and it showed I was 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced. When we heard this, Eric and I both got really nervous and upset. On top of it all, I was having regular contractions. How could this be happening? I was supposed to be on my way to work!
The nurses started giving me shots of turbutaline to see if it would stop the contractions. After three shots, the contractions were very minimal, but were still occuring. An ultrasound tech also came in and did another ultrasound to measure the weights of the twins. Baby A weighed 4.2 lbs and Baby B weighed 3.7 lbs.
The neonatologist who was on staff that day came in to see us. He gave us a 20 minute briefing on what to expect with premature babies-how they are going to be underdeveloped and will have to stay in a NICU for a long time. He explained they might have long term development issues and depending on how I progressed, I would have to be transferred to another hospital since Arrowhead isn't equiped to handle such premature babies. If I had to deliver right away, I would have to stay at Arrowhead and the babies would be transferred to a Level 2 hospital where there was a NICU that could treat the babies. The doctor was incredibly nice, but what the heck??! Was that really necessary to come scare the living daylights out of me and Eric? Couldn't he at least wait to see if the treatment was going to work first?
After that, the perinatologist came to visit. This guy is such a hoot-I'll try to paint a picture of this guy: Dr. Pedron is tall and very skinny with glasses. He wore black and white pinstriped pants with a black and white checkered shirt. He had on gray Mickey Mouse socks and gray suede Gucci loafers. The funny this is, this guy just exudes smartness. You hardly have to look at him without realizing he is just insanely smart. Eric thought that he was able to pull of his ensemble. I just thought it made him more of character.
Anyway, Dr. Pedron came and in and sat on the bed next to me and asked, "So what's going on here?" He talks very quietly so you have to strain to hear him and when he talks to you, it's like you're in a pop quiz that you didn't study for. I told him I was admitted for preterm labor and he asked was the treatment had been so far. Between me and Eric, we gave him the full picture of what we knew was going on. He had read in my chart that Eric was a medical student, so he pimped him a little-it was pretty funny. He spent quite some time with us and at the end, he bluntly told us that everything was going to be fine. He said there was no reason why my body was going into preterm labor, but that since I had about 8lbs of baby in me, my uterus just thought it was done. Even if I were to deliver the babies that soon, he assured me they would be alright. He said he was going to take the prudent action of treating me with magnesium sulfate to shock my uterus and make it stop contracting. He told me not to worry. It was evident he is a Christian man and he said that all we can do is pray. He reminded me and Eric that we are told not to worry but rather to leave it God and let he and Dr. McKernan worry for us. That was exactly what we needed to hear!
After our meetings with the specialists, the nurse came in and started me on a magnesium sulfate bollis. Magnesium sulfate is used as an anti-seizure medicine, but can be used in high doses to treat preterm labor. The nurse had to stay in my room when she she started the IV medication to make sure I didn't have a bad reaction as the medicine slows down all of your smooth muscles. The medicine made me feel like I'd been hit by a truck. I was incredibly woosy and sweated profusely. The air had been turned down and I had a fan on me, but it hardly helped. It really made me feel like crap, but after they gave me the super high dose, I had no contractions!
I stayed on the magnesium until Wednesday when I saw Dr. McKernan again. He said I could start tapering off it and back onto the turbutaline. If I didn't have contractions on the turbutaline, I could go home on Thursday to be on bedrest. Fortunately, I didn't experience any major contractions after being taked off the magnesium. I now have to stay home on bed rest and take the medicine every 4 hours. Oh, and I have to drink alcohol! Dr. McKernan told me that alcohol is an excellent tocolytic (anti-contraction drug). I wasn't exactly expecting to go home and start drinking!
Now, I just have to get through the next 4-5 weeks. It would be awesome to make it to 35 weeks since that's when the babies finish developing neurologicially.
Eric and I are so grateful that the contractions seem to be managed and we can let these little guys continue to grow in utero. We pray that the Lord will continue to take care of these special boys while they are still growing and will allow my body to let them continue to mature inside of me.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Week 28 Belly Pic!
Baby Names
Eric and I have had the boys' names picked out for awhile. I just haven't posted about them!
So here's the big reveal! The boys' names are:
So here's the big reveal! The boys' names are:
Carter John Groen
and
Brandt Roger Groen
The first names have no major significance. Eric and I have always liked the name "Carter." It's always been our favorite boy name since before we were married. We had a very difficult time finding a second, though! We were going back and forth between several names when I saw "Brandt." Of all places, I came across it on facebook. I told Eric about the name and he really liked it, too. We both mulled over the name for a couple of days and liked it more and more. So it stuck!
The middle names, though, are meaningful as they are the names of the grandfathers. "John" is my father's name and "Roger" is Eric's father's name. We think it's so special to name both the boys after the grandfathers.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Cutest outfits...ever!
We received this gift from Eric's sister in the mail last week. Laura is in her first year of residency in Charlotte, NC, and couldn't make it out to the shower. She was greatly missed and we can't wait for the boys to meet their Auntie Laura. We absolutely love this outfit she sent! We are definitely going to make special plans for the boys to get all dressed up in them and we will take plenty of pictures!
I mean, seriously! Aren't these just too cute? The blue onesie and the seersucker overalls both have little whales embroidered on them.
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Week 28 Doctor Appointments
This week was very busy with doctor appointments. I had a normal checkup with my OB on Tuesday. This one was extra special since my mother-in-law was able to go to see the boys. Baby A was still in a vertex (head down) position and Baby B was still a breech position. I asked the doctor if he could give me a realistic due date and he said that if all continues to go well, we'll plan to induce/schedule a C-section the week of June 8th. How exiting and so soon! He also said that I'll start taking steroid shots at my next appointment to speed up the development of the boys' lungs. That way, if I go into labor early or there's a need to deliver them sooner than the June date, the boys will be better developed.
On Friday, I had a follow-up ultrasound with the perinatologist. Unfortunately, we had Miss Crabby Pants as our ultrasound tech. I don't understand how someone who gets to look at babies all day can be in a mad mood, but she certainly was. Eric was able to attend the appointment with me and since he came straight from the hospital, he was in scrubs. We both think that maybe she thought he was a doctor and was intimated by him. I don't know, but she didn't even introduce herself to us!
Despite the unpleasant tech, it was a fun appointment just because we got to see the babies again. Baby A weighed 2 lbs 7 oz and Baby B weighed 2 lbs 3 oz. The tech took a few measurements and noted the babies have good "practice breathing." According to Eric, this means their hypothalamuses (the breathing center in the brain) are well developed. Also, Crabby Tech Lady said there was a good amount of amniotic fluid around each baby. This is also good as it means the babies's kidneys and esophagus are development. Yaay! Below are a few pics from the ultrasound:
Friday, April 10, 2009
Family baby shower
Last Sunday, my sister, Cara, and my mom hosted a baby shower for the boys. It was so much fun to see all the family and friends who came. We are so blessed by all the wonderful things we got for the boys. Mom, Cara, and my Aunt Helen did an amazing job planning and decorating for the shower.
Mom did such an excellent job preparing my favorite Mexican appetizers. We even got to eat them on her fine china! Cara had such a great idea of getting fancy little cakes in different flavors for the shower. What a neat idea! All the ladies enjoyed picking out their favorite flavor. 
Here's a pic of me and my sister, Cara
Here's a pic of me and some Bible study girls and my neighbor, Jennifer and her CUTE son, Colton. Baby Carter and Brandt can't wait to play with him!
We played a few of the standard shower games and had so much fun. We played the "guess the baby food game" and "guess how many squares of toilet paper it takes to get around the preggo's waist game". Below are a few pictures from the games. It was so funny to watch people eat the baby food.
Here's my friend, Melissa, measuring my waist in toilet paper. I was 11 squares big!
My grandmother won the game with the exact guess of 11 squares. Way to go, Mamaw!
After the games, it was time to open up gifts. The boys received so many thoughtful things!
My mother-in-law found these cute pee-pee tee-pees with little airplanes on them. How cute! They will definitely come in handy!
A diaper genie-yaaay! No stinky diapers smelling up the babies' room!
Thank you so much to everyone who helped at the shower and for all the wondering gifts. We are so thankful!
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