I haven't posted much about Eric and his first year in his residency. I'm a bad wife. Actually, I haven't posted much about anything. I feel like I'm more busy living here in IL than in AZ. I was having a hard time figuring out why that was. I mean, I'm still taking care of
boys all day, but I don't have near the social life as I did in AZ (oh, how I miss my AZ peeps). I was thinking that it was because of my pregnancy. I just seems like doing anything when you're pregnant is so much more difficult. I look at a floor and think, "Man, that's a dirty floor. I should really vacuum it." If I wasn't pregnant, it would have already been vacuumed and mopped!
That aside, I figured out that the majority of it is because my partner is gone. He is working all. the. time. He is an amazing father and I miss him. He's already in his third rotation (he has a new rotation every month). In his first, he did pediatrics at a children's hospital. He loved it. He was incredibly busy, but he loved it. He had a somewhat normal schedule (meaning, he came home at night) and was on-call every fourth night. When you're on-call, you stay at the hospital over night. This meant that he would work around 30 hours straight. He'd come home, sleep, and then go back the next day.
In his second rotation, he did emergency medicine. He really didn't like it (that's saying it nicely). He hated dealing with stupid people coming into the ER for stupid reasons. I don't blame him! With this schedule, he started at 1 in the afternoon and would work until 1 in the morning. This really conflicted with the rest of the family's schedule because the boys wake up at 7. Eric would sleep in late and then the boys would take a nap. Eric would only see them for about 30 minutes before he went back to work.
This month, he's doing internal medicine (IM) and so far, he has the
stupidest schedule yet. He's at a
podunk hospital just over the border in Indiana. During the week day, he does cardiology until 5 and if it's not Tuesday or Wednesday, he's on-call. This means that he's doing cardiology during the day and then does general IM all night long. This also means that he has to work every day. EVERY DAY. He's either on-call or post call (the term used for the day after you're on-call, even though you still have to work half the day) or it's Tuesday or Wednesday, where he just works a normal day. I think it's stupid.
This month, since he's going to be living at the hospital, I'm going to make it a point to go eat dinner with him. If he can't come home to me, I'll go to him!:)
Anyway, I miss him. It's probably worse because I'm in full nesting mode and am getting anxious about taking care of the boys plus the baby. I guess this is the life of a resident's wife. Hopefully someday I get my husband back. I'm so proud of Eric and all of his hard work and I can't wait for this year of his residency to be over!